Caesarean sections (C-sections) indicate weakness in a woman is false

How widespread is the taboo?

Picture this: A woman gives birth via c-section, and suddenly, everyone has something to say. “Ah, she wasn’t strong enough to push?” “Our grandmothers gave birth on the farm, why can’t she?” Sound familiar? In many African communities, natural birth is seen as proof of a woman’s strength, while a c-section is unfairly labeled as “the easy way out.” But let’s be real—there is nothing easy about surgery!

Why does it exist?

Back in the day, c-sections were rare, and natural birth was the only option. If a woman couldn’t push, it was seen as failure. But now, we know better. A c-section is a medical procedure used when vaginal birth is risky for the mother or baby. It’s not about weakness—it’s about saving lives! After all, should a woman risk death just to prove she’s “strong”?

What is the impact of the myth?

• Some women refuse c-sections out of fear of shame, risking their lives and their baby’s.
• Mothers who deliver via c-section feel judged, instead of being supported.
• The myth discourages proper maternal healthcare, leading to preventable deaths.

How can we combat the myth?

• Educate people that c-sections are lifesaving, not a sign of failure.
• Support all mothers, whether they deliver vaginally or surgically.
• Remind women that childbirth—no matter how it happens—is an act of strength.

What is the bottom line?

A real woman isn’t defined by how she gives birth. Strength is bringing life into the world no matter what the method.